"Of females killed with a firearm, almost two-thirds of were killed by their intimate partners."
"A study of women physically abused by current or former intimate partners found a five-fold increased risk of the partner murdering the woman when the partner owned a gun."
"In 1998, for every one woman who used a handgun to kill an intimate acquaintance in self-defense, 83 women were killed by an intimate acquaintance using a hand gun"
The Murder of Reeva Steenkamp was not a (wrong person) mistake. It wasn’t even a crime of passion. She had locked herself in the bathroom with her phone. It’s fairly clear what this was.